The Lovely Bones

March 15, 2010

The Lovely Bones
The Lovely Bones (2009)

IMDB rating: 6.90

Plot: Based on the best selling book by Alice Sebold, The Lovely Bones is the story of a 14-year-old girl from suburban Pennsylvania who is murdered by her neighbor. She tells the story from Heaven, showing the lives of the people around her and how they have changed all while attempting to get someone to find her lost body.

The Lovely Bones

Directors: Jackson Peter

Actors: Abel Jake,Ahl Michael,Ahl Michael,Allen Andrew James,Ashdale Christian Thomas,Beck Gary,Bizik Robert,Bravo,Brooks Michael Edward,Burkett Lee,Colletti Damien,Fisher Stink,Graves Richard,Imperioli Michael,Crime,Drama,Fantasy,Horror,Thriller,

Question for avid readers..?
I just wanted to know some really good novels. I have the hardest time picking out a novel because I either
a. either judge a book by its cover or
b think that the synopsis sounds good and go home to a really horrible book.
I’m a sophomore in High school but I enjoy reading higher level than teeny-bopper books (make sense?) I’ll give you a list of some of my favorite books and if you would please give me some suggestions? I don’t really have a favorite genre, because I’m open to many books but i absolutely do not like Science Fiction. Thanks!

1. The Green Mile by Stephen King
2. Nineteen Minutes by Jodi Picoult
3. The Virgin Blue by Tracy Chevalier
4. The Time Travelers Wife by Audrey Neffeneger
5. The Other Boleyn Girl by Philipa Gregory
6. A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini
7. Water For Elephants by Sara Gruen
8. The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

thats really all i can think of but there are so many more! Your help is appreciated : )


You may try some John Irving books, Cider House Rules, A Prayer for Owen Meany, etc. You may also want to read some Margaret Atwood. These authors write books with adult material that some readers may find offensive, but their books are generally considered to be well-crafted.
bansidh | Feb 10, 2010

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Beauty and the Beast

February 27, 2010

Beauty and the Beast
Beauty and the Beast (2009)

IMDB rating: 4.90

Plot: A dark twist on the morality tale of forbidden love between beautiful Belle and the feared forest Beast. As villagers are being brutally murdered and the Beast is hunted down as the one responsible for the mayhem, Belle and Beast team up to defeat the real killer the power-hungry witch’s malevolent troll.

Beauty and the Beast

Directors: Lister David

Actors: Giles Rhett,Parascos Victor,Bellette Tony,Betts Chris,Cook Peter,Cooper Nicholas G.,Finden Mark,Garvey Damien,Henry Jack,Jensen Dan,Kidd Anthony,Kuzelicki Alex,Levi Todd,,

hows this for an opening to a fantasy,adventure,suspense novel?
Aoro squatted down on the balls of his feet on the branch of an oak tree atop a hill, peering down at the small town below him. His body wasn

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Stoic

February 6, 2010

Stoic
Stoic (2009)

IMDB rating: 3.70

Plot: A heated game of poker causes three men incarcerated for nonviolent offenses to brutalize their cellmate before taking drastic measures in order to cover up their crime.

Directors: Boll Uwe

Actors: Furlong Edward,Sipos Shaun,Levinson Sam,Mennekes Steffen,Switch Jamie,Teigen Michael,Alexander Reese,Boileau Daniel,Drama,

I cant keep a job down…I cant bring myself to start another one.?
I have had some amazing jobs…i was a firefighter for 2 years on moorlands and a partime groundworker in a quiet quiet part of the world, (the locals nicknamed me useless though)

I worked at an airport for three months for 15? an hour changing aircraft wheels (i was the butt of jokes as a liability)

and worked in good kitchens and restaurants (i couldnt keep the kitchen together)

and so many many other jobs agencies work kitchens you name it but within three months im told we dont think you want to be here or i cant get outa bed for love nor money

I am so laid back coming across to people, they take the mickey outta me cos im non responcive even to sneaky firecrackers or cars nigh on almost running me over when i dont look.
and cant speak sence, so mutch is always going on in my head though im always thinking and everytime im fired i keep stoic keep a straight face thank them but inside now i try not to burst into tears…im clinnicly useless, i cant do nowt i try so so hard

my freinds are rude and tell me to get a job, girls are put off cos all i do now is play b ball and get state money, i given up and have done everything…im only 25 and the only thing i do well is washing up but its depressing
I try try try…i gave up after um 8 years strong attitude… only some one i know would say something as stupid as julia said


Guaranteed you will get labeled and most likely medicated if you see a psychiatrist, that is all they do……
I dont know if you have ‘word salad’ or not….. the way you write could be your education level or cultural differences……………..but it basically sounds fine and is understandable, so it is how you feel and your concerns over thinking a lot, and feeling social pressure in a sensative way, not knowing what to say….etc
If YOU think you need help with ’speaking sense’……..or some other thing, expressing yourself well, and want to be evaluated, then find someone who will check you for everything , and get more than one opinion, without telling the other what the first one said, because they play follow the leader with opinions all the time………..
Many times these problems are rooted in imbalanced horomones and you need those well evaluated, along with learning disabilities,etc….
You say you are living off the ’state;’ so if your health insurance will pay for it, get a good evaluation, not just someone who will automatically think you have ‘word salad’ because you think you speak differently sometimes………’word salad’ implies schizophrenia , which is the direction others are going with what you have shared here.
Here are some evaluation places I would feel comfortable that you would get a fair evaluation.
Here is a free healing tool you could apply to all your fear and problems also……
I wish you well

D.D | Jan 25, 2010


You’re running perilously close to word salad here, and your thoughts seem to be derailing. I’m wondering if you might have some psychiatric problems that aren’t being sufficiently addressed, and that is what is leading to your failure to keep a job.

You might want to consider a psychiatric consult. What could it hurt?

Best of luck with your decision,
~Dr. B.~
michele | Jan 25, 2010


Sorry if this sounds rude, but WAKE UP and pull yourself together… GROW UP. Take responsibility for yourself. No one else can make you change your attitude.
Julia | Jan 25, 2010

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Last Chance Harvey

January 10, 2010

Last Chance Harvey
Last Chance Harvey (2009)

IMDB rating: 7.30

Plot: In London for his daughter’s wedding, a rumpled man finds his romantic spirits lifted by a new woman in his life.

Directors: Hopkins Joel

Actors: Hoffman Dustin,Brolin James,Schiff Richard,Landes Michael,Avery Alex,Baladi Patrick,Currie James,Jones Rhydian,Kamo Masato,Kempner Mark,Lapaine Daniel,Drama,Romance,

What is the song that plays at the end of last chance harvey?


amazon has the soundtrack listing….the instrumental at the end is #16 The end.

the song during the credits is #17 - where do we go by sandrine

not sure if this is what you want tho.

hope this helps

http://www.amazon.com/Last-Chance-Harvey -Dickon-Hinchcliffe/dp/B001PUTN2A/ref=sr _1_1?ie=UTF8&s=music&qid=1245130 223&sr=1-1

morriss | Jun 16, 2009

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Command Performance

January 4, 2010

Command Performance
Command Performance (2009)

IMDB rating: 7.00

Plot: A Moscow charity concert turns bloody when armed extortionists take the head liner American pop-star Venus and the Russian President with his family hostage. Help is on the way when the drummer of a heavy metal warm-up band, an ex-bad ass biker played by Lundgren, and a young Russian F.S.B. agent team up to fight back. But our two heroes are seriously outnumbered and things aren’t as simple as they appear when old ghosts from the Soviet Union appear to haunt the present in this fast paced action piece.

Directors: Lundgren Dolph

Actors: Lundgren Dolph,Shopov Hristo,Legeno Dave,Baharov Zahary,von Franckenstein Clement,Geraskov Ivaylo,Vasilev Raicho,Slavov Slavi,Chalke James,Shopov Naum,Action,Drama,Thriller,

Why do you prefer your particular training methods?
YES this is a Koehler vs Positive Reinforcement Only vs Modern Technique "face off"! Koehler trainers I want to know why you think 50 year old training methods are still the best in the world…do you think there have been any improvements on Koehler’s methods at all? Of course, the methods he pioneered still work, but so do Conrad Most’s training and nobody trains by it anymore because it’s out dated. What gives the Koehler method it’s staying power, why are you still using it and to what results?

Positive Reinforcement Only crowd…why do you think a hundred year old training method that rarely (some could argue that it never) produces a dog that complies to command 100% of the time still be used? Be honest, if your dog saw a rabbit bound from the bushes and started after it, and you said "No" would it stop? If the Boogey Man was behind you and you called your dog to you would he come or would he ignore the command and run!?! Would your dog obey a command even to his own peril?

As far as "Modern Technique" trainers I mean those who use treats, and toys like tugs, and balls on ropes as rewards as well as verbal praise BUT who believe that once an adult dog refuses to obey a command that it knows through positive and motivational training, that it should be corrected. Definitions out of the way, did you come from a PRO or a Koehler based training background? What made you decide to switch? Also, have you noticed a marked improvement in results vs the method you switched over from? Have you noticed a marked decline in overall performance?

Legit: (Just in case) Do you compete with your dog in Schutzhund, Obedience, Herding or Agility and if so what titles/championships have you won/earned?
My only qualm with Koehler methods are the lack of food rewards. At times it’s better to give a food reward over a bite. I think his mentality of "I want the dog to work because I told him to, not for a treat" is misplaced. My puppies and young dogs work for treats, and once it’s time for proofing they continue to work or they get the correction they’re asking for. As long as you do sufficient "proofing" during a clearly defined corrections phase, it doesn’t matter if you’ve used a ball on a rope, a tug, or treats during training…the purpose of the corrections phase is to say "Hey, you will obey my commands whether you’re too full for treats or too tired to play tug or you’ll have to deal with me".


I use a mixture of training, collar, I use a martingale training collar, and I use clicker training, dog does what I asl praise T, wrong, correct redirect and try again, I always end on a positive note.

| Oct 16, 2009


I worked at PetSmart for almost 3 years, and was working there when I got my first puppy, Zeke, my GSD. I got free obedience classes as an employee. So that right there should tell you what kind of methods I "believed" in. I did the whole clicker training with Zeke. And he did really good. I also give a lot of that to the fact that he is a german shepherd. Very smart and strong drive to please. I would never say he was GREAT. He listened to "uh-uh", but he occasionally got distracted. His recall has always been really good, but occasionally he would get distracted. Sometimes he would get over-excited, and it was hard to get his focus back onto training. This was also about the time I first joined Yahoo. I think greekman can remember many nasty remarks I made about his cruelty and idiotic training methods (I was Anubis_Star back then. Remember me? lol). He was probably one of my least favorite users on here.

I never trained Zeke to heel or walk on a leash, because he always did it naturally! That dog loose-leash walked perfectly from the time he was 7 weeks old. Until he was about 1.5 years old. Then he decided pulling was fun…

Being the clicker happy "trainer" I was, I started the process of training. First I started by stopping every time he pulled and starting back up every time he stopped pulling. Boy, we got REAL far with that one. After a couple weeks, I started walking backwards about 5 feet every time he pulled, and then turning around and going back in the original direction. I think we ended up walking backwards a LOT! Then I moved on to just luring his nose right in front of me with a big chunk of liver, and clicking the hell out of him. We actually walked a few blocks that way, but as far as training went, as soon as I removed that liver, he was off pulling again!!

I found a trainer with 30+ years working with shepherds and malinois. He competes in schutzhund on national levels, and trains for many of the k9 units around town. We slipped that choke chain on, and within 2 days I had Zeke perfectly heeling with very minimal corrections.

My trainer helped change my views a LOT. I now see how stupid that dumb myth is "Don’t correct a dog when it’s doing something bad, it only thinks you’re praising it". These are the same idiots that tell you it takes a year + to properly train a dog to heel. Seriously? My old trainer told me the chain on Zeke was cruel, and that even though I had tried training him to heel for over 3 months with her methods, I just hadn’t given it enough time. No offense, but Zeke is EXTREMELY smart. If her methods didn’t even make a dent in his pulling, then no, they did not work. I am now a firm believer of verbal praise when done correctly, and corrections when done incorrectly. That correction could be as simple as a sharp "uh-uh", or it could be as firm as a few sharp pops on the leash. Whatever it takes to get the correct behavior. Of course, the occasional treat or ball reward. And Zeke’s training has made a 180. Before, he was good. Now, he is great. Definitely no obedience champion, and my father has definitely set some of his training back. But his commands are much sharper. His attention is much more focused.

I prefer my methods because they work for my dogs. But I don’t think I really have any one "method". I believe that in training, start as nice and soft as you can, and go as harsh and hard as you have to. Be willing to accept that dogs are different, and your preferred method isn’t going to work on every dog. I think REAL trainers are willing to change things up if need be. You can’t drag a soft lab around popping the hell out of it’s leash. At the same time, you can’t take a dominant, hard as$ rottie and pat it on the head feeding it treats.

Sorry if this is so long. I had no idea how to put into words my "methods"

Legit: I originally wanted to compete in Agility with Zeke. I’ve always love agility, or even flyball. But he is very lazy and low drived in the physical department, and he could never really excel at it. Just exercising him is a chore. I did do some protection training, though, and would love to do more of that. Hopefully in the spring, when work and school settle down.

Luther, the czech pup, we wanted to do Schutzhund. You know how that one turned out, lol.

For my next dog, I will be getting a working lined GSD, and I will be actively competing in Schutzhund and Obedience.

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Prayers for Bobby

January 2, 2010

Prayers for Bobby
Prayers for Bobby (2009)

IMDB rating: 8.40

Plot: In “Prayers for Bobby,” Mary Griffith is a devout Christian who raises her children with the conservative teachings of the Presbyterian Church. However, when her son Bobby confides to his older brother he may be gay, life changes for the entire family after Mary learns about his secret. While Bobby’s father and siblings slowly come to terms with his homosexuality, Mary believes God can cure him of what she considers his ’sin’ and persuades Bobby to pray harder and seek solace in church activities in hopes of changing him. Desperate for his mother’s approval, Bobby does what is asked of him, but through it all, the church’s apparent disapproval of homosexuality causes him to grow increasingly withdrawn and depressed. Guilty over the pain he is causing Mary, Bobby moves away, yet hopes that some day his mother will accept him. His subsequent depression and self-loathing intensifies as he blames himself for not being the ‘perfect’ son and is driven to suicide. Faced with their tragedy, Mary begins to question her faith when she receives no answers from her pastor concerning her devastating loss. Through her long and emotional journey, Mary slowly reaches out to the gay community and discovers unexpected support from a very unlikely source. The film is based on the 1995 Leroy Aarons book of the same name.

Directors: Mulcahy Russell

Actors: Czerny Henry,Kelley Ryan,Butler Dan,Nichols Austin,Bailey Scott,Bardha Ele,Brown David G.B.,Budziszewski Dennis,Bufalini Marty,Biography,Drama,

What is the best form of gay rights activism?
There have been so many ways to fight for LGBT rights. The equality march on Washington, for one. Colleges have been holding kiss-ins in which gay couples gather and celebrate a public kiss with their significant other. Movies like Milk and Prayers for Bobby and Brokeback Mountain have furthered LGBT causes. And of course, there are flyers, parades, gay days at amusement parks, and many other events that display and support the gay community.

Which one is the best and most effective do you think?


All of these things together have furthered the LGBT cause. Many people were offended when Barney Frank told those who gathered in DC for the national equality march that they would only be putting "pressure on the grass" but he was partially true. We need to use our system of government to also further our cause. Currently, there is a bill to overturn the "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy, which would be a milestone in gay rights. It needs only 36 more co-sponsors for it to be eligible for a vote in the House. Many Representatives like Nancy Pelosi would certainly co-sponsor the bill if only they had the pressure from our community to do so. Find out if your representative has co-sponsored the bill, if not, meet with them and request them to do so. If your representative has, see if a neighboring district has co-sponsored and energize the gay community in that district to lobby their representative. And this is the same with a bill overturning DOMA and will be true as our cause continues. Marches and movies are fun, and they help, but we also need to actually do work that may not be so fun to really make an impact. Go to sldn.org to find out if your rep. has co-sponsored the bill that will overturn discrimination in the military.

| Oct 28, 2009


be true one self and others
Frances Carodine | Oct 28, 2009


Be out, be yourself and get to know lots of people.
..That way, they’ll realize that you are an individual with good and bad qualities, not just a label or a sexual orientation.

It’s much easier to vilify something one does not understand!
If you’re out, maybe next time someone asks one of your friends about gay marriage, instead of thinking: "Wow, homosexuality is wrong and sinful!", he or she will think: "Oh, my friend Peter is gay, and he’s still an awesome person. I want him to be happy! So maybe it *should* be legal..?"

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Lesbian Vampire Killers

December 13, 2009

Lesbian Vampire Killers
Lesbian Vampire Killers (2009)

IMDB rating: 5.20

Plot: Their women having been enslaved by the local pack of lesbian vampires thanks to an ancient curse, the remaining menfolk of a rural town send two hapless young lads out onto the moors as a sacrifice.

buy and download Lesbian Vampire Killers

Directors: Claydon Phil

Actors: McGann Paul,Corden James,Horne Mathew,Jones John Pierce,Oliver Travis,Action,Comedy,Horror,

Vampires: Too much of a bad thing?
Anyone else think all vampire stuff is getting out of hand? Just becasue some 12 year old girls squeal over Twilight doesn’t mean it’s good and should be copied! Movies/shows like:

Daybreakers
Being Human *
True Blood
Let the Right One In *
Cirque du Freak: The Vampire’s Assistant
Lesbian Vampire Killers
The Vampire Diaries

Some of this vampire stuff I actually like though (*)
What do you think? (also please list any I’ve missed)
I know there have been Vampire movies before now, but I mean the flood of new ones now


Vampires have pretty much always been popular, but now all these stupid kids started to like twilight and now people are taking advantage of that and milking it for all it’s worth while vampires are the ‘hot’ thing.

L i v i

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